Foreign policy

Ukraine, aid, and America First.

“We're sending all our money to Ukraine instead of helping Americans.”

"U.S. aid to Ukraine is taking money that should be used to help Americans at home."

What's actually true

Ukraine aid is a small share of federal spending—not anything close to “all our money”—and the government continues spending much larger amounts on programs serving Americans. Much of the military aid funding pays to replace U.S. weapons stocks or purchase equipment from American manufacturers, rather than simply sending cash overseas. Other assistance does support Ukraine’s government and humanitarian needs. There are real costs and trade-offs, but whether the aid is worth those costs is a policy judgment.

Where they have a point

It’s reasonable to want help for Americans struggling with housing, groceries, or medical bills—and to demand accountability for aid spending. Money spent through U.S. manufacturers still costs taxpayers; that alone doesn’t prove it’s the best use of funds.

Say this (15 seconds)

I want people here helped, too. But Ukraine aid is a small share of the budget, and much of the military funding buys equipment here. We can debate the cost without saying Americans get nothing.

Then ask

What kind of help at home would you most want Congress to fund?

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Pass the gravy (exit line)

We probably won’t settle the federal budget before dessert. Who’s ready for pie?

“NATO countries don't pay anything and freeload off us.”

"Other NATO countries contribute little or nothing and rely on the United States to pay for their defense."

What's actually true

Other NATO countries fund their own armed forces and contribute to NATO’s shared budgets; they don’t pay membership dues to Washington. The United States does spend substantially more on defense than any other ally, though that also funds American commitments outside NATO. NATO estimated that 22 of its 32 members would meet the benchmark of spending 2% of GDP on defense in 2024, up from three in 2014. That benchmark measures national military spending, not payments owed to the United States.

Where they have a point

There’s a real burden-sharing issue: many allies spent below NATO’s agreed benchmark for years, leaving the United States carrying a disproportionate share of the alliance’s military capabilities. Wanting allies to contribute more is a fair position.

Say this (15 seconds)

There’s a fair point about sharing the load, but they don’t pay nothing. Allies fund their own militaries and NATO’s shared budgets. The argument is whether they’re doing enough—not whether they contribute at all.

Then ask

What would you consider a fair share—spending relative to a country’s economy, the forces it contributes, or some combination?

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Pass the gravy (exit line)

Anyway, let’s negotiate something easier: who gets the last dinner roll?